RE: Why Am I Not Seeing The Weight Loss Results I Want?
I often hear from people that they’re trying hard to lose weight but it just doesn’t seem to be coming off. Nothing they do seems to work.
My response is always to ask them questions to figure out what they are doing with regards to their food and exercise.
The most common scenarios are:
Scenario 1: It seems that they are doing every ‘right’, exercising daily, eating healthily and cutting out junk and still not getting the results they want. This is obviously very disheartening for the person trying to lose weight and when their hard efforts return no results they often quit their new health/weight loss regime.
Scenario 2: It seems they have ‘tried’ for one or two weeks and did well but life got in the way and they stopped. They often feel like a failure and say things like ‘I really want to lose weight, I don’t know why I cant seem to stick to it.. I must be a loser and destined to stay this weight’.
From my personal experience and coaching weightloss clients, I find that most people are usually very close to their goal and that just a few tweaks will help them get the results they want.
Lets look some solutions..
In scenario 1, one or more of these things are usually happening:
1: The person is eating healthier and exercising however.. is actually not eating enough! Yes, this may sound crazy but often people change their diets and start to eat so little that their metabolism slows down so much that they stop losing weight.
Solution: Ensure you are eating enough everyday. 3 low GI meals and 2 low GI snacks are recommended with foods across all food groups. Sample foods and recipes can be found at www.LowGIWeightLoss.com/day4.html
2: Again, the person is eating healthier and exercising however.. is actually still eating too much and not accounting for all they eat. What do we mean?
Well, all the little extras throughout the day, a spoonful of yougart here, a handful of chips there, a few mouthfuls of the kids lunch/ leftovers.. the old ‘it doesn’t count if its on someone else’s plate’ scenario. Sound familiar?
Solution: The solution here is to stick to the 3 meals and 2 snacks and do not pick throughout the day.. Keep a food diary and bring it with you everywhere you go. Note EVERYTHING you eat, even the odd chip here and there, you’ll be surprised at what you’re eating.
3: The person is eating healthier and exercising however.. is still eating very large portions of food.
Solution: Look at the servings listed on the nutrition panel of what you’re eating. If it contains 4 servings and you’re eating half or even the whole package then you’re eating 2-4 times more than you need to. Most serving sizes shouldn’t be larger than your fist.
Some tips are:
* Fill up on vegetables and salad.
* A portion of meat should be around the size of a deck of cards.
* ½ cup of rice or pasta is the same as a tennis ball.
* Don’t eat straight from the package, if applicable.
* Eat from a smaller plate, studies show this can be a simple and effective way to reduce your portion sizes.
Lets look at scenario 2:
At a glance it would seem this personally is not really ‘motivated’ enough, when the truth is there is usually more to it than that. One of these things may be happening:
1: The persons weight loss is not a priority and bad habits are too easily fallen back into. This is often the case for busy mums & stressed workers.
Solution: A mindset change is needed.. for example make a healthy lifestyle your priority and see it as something that will help your life not add stress to it.
Realistically it is a lot less stressful to be healthy and happy with your weight than not!
Tips
* Buy only healthy, nutritious food each week so there’s no option for junk in the house.
* Premake lunch/ dinners during the week.. again some recipes at www.LowGIWeightLoss.com/day4.html take 15- 20 mins to prepare.
* Make extra servings to last 2 days if you forsee busy days ahead.
* Try good quality replacement meals or shakes, we always recommend Usana as these are certified low GI AND meal replacements.
Remember ‘I cant’ is a victim way of saying ‘I wont’
2: The person subconsciously doesn’t want to lose weight or feels that if they lose it that something bad will come of it.. Ok this sounds very ‘deep’ but in reality we’re all doing our best and underneath it all if we believe losing weight will not benefit us we wont lose it.
Solution: Ask yourself, what do I stand to lose if I become my desired weight?
We have heard people say..
I’ll have nothing to moan about anymore.
I’ll be attractive and will gain male attention again.. what if I stray?
I’ll have no excuse to say no to going out anymore.
If you think you need extra help in this area, talk to someone who can help you discuss whats really going on.
Do you see yourself in any of the scenarios above?
Put a solution in place, either one suggested here or something you know will help you.
Have a great week, be nice to yourself and remember its up to you to choose to have the health and body of your dreams!
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